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Helpful articles and information that inform the work of our child, adolescent & adult therapists and coaches. 

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Navigating College Rejection with Teenagers

As the college application process comes to a close, the anticipation and anxiety surrounding acceptance letters can be overwhelming for both parents and students alike. While acceptance is celebrated, rejection can be devastating.

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Staying Motivated When the Sun is Shining

As the days grow longer and the weather gets warmer, it can be challenging to stay motivated and focused at work or at school when all you want to do is be outside enjoying the sunshine. This phenomenon, often referred to as “spring fever,” can impact productivity and motivation levels, especially as summer approaches.

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Do you have Impostor Syndrome?

Today, we delve into a common yet often misunderstood phenomenon that affects many individuals across various walks of life - Impostor Syndrome. In a world where self-doubt and insecurity can creep into even the most accomplished minds, understanding and overcoming impostor syndrome is crucial for personal growth and well-being.

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What is Sleep Hygiene?

Adequate sleep is closely linked to emotional well-being which is our focus at Integrative Therapy & Coaching. By prioritizing sleep and ensuring sufficient rest, you can enhance your emotional resilience and maintain a more stable and positive mood throughout the day. Additionally, quality sleep is essential for optimal cognitive functioning. During sleep, the brain consolidates and organizes information, allowing for enhanced memory retention and improved learning.

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Are You a Perfectionist?

Perfectionism is a mindset that revolves around the relentless pursuit of flawlessness and an unattainable standard of excellence. While striving for excellence can be positive, perfectionism takes it to an extreme level, leading to chronic self-criticism, fear of failure, and an overwhelming need for external validation.

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The Joy and Stress of Holiday Time with Family

Holiday gatherings can be a source of immense joy, allowing us to reconnect with loved ones, reminisce about cherished memories, and create new traditions. However, they can also trigger stress, tension, and unresolved conflicts.

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Work Hard, Play Hard?

The popular notion of “work hard, play hard” implies that pushing ourselves to the limits during work hours means that we should lean in just as “hard” to activities during our leisure time. While it may seem appealing on the surface, this mindset often leads to burnout and neglects our fundamental need for rest. Constantly striving for intensity without allowing ourselves time to recharge and simply be, can have detrimental effects on our mental, emotional, and physical health.

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Harnessing the Power of Gratitude

As we prepare for the Thanksgiving holiday, it’s an opportune time to pause and reflect on the significance of “being thankful.” Gratitude is more than just saying “thank you.” It’s a mindset, an approach to life that emphasizes positive thinking and appreciation for the world around us. Practicing gratitude isn’t just about feeling good; it’s about creating a shift in our mental perspective. By focusing on the positive, we can counteract our brain’s natural tendency to spotlight the negative, a phenomenon known as negativity bias.

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Talking to Kids and Teens about War

War is unfortunately a sad reality that is affecting and has affected countless lives around the world. Discussing violent conflict and war with children and teenagers can be challenging for parents and teachers alike. However, open and honest conversations play a pivotal role in helping young individuals develop a comprehensive understanding of the world, fostering empathy, and building resilience. In this blog post, we will explore effective strategies for discussing war with kids and teens, providing guidance for parents and teachers to navigate these sensitive conversations.

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High Achievement Culture and its Impact on Kids and Teens

In today's fast-paced and competitive world, the pressure to excel academically, athletically, and socially can be overwhelming for children and teenagers. This toxic high achievement culture places immense emphasis on external validation, leading to detrimental effects on mental health and overall well-being. In this blog post, we will explore the impact of toxic high achievement culture on kids and teens and provide strategies to foster balance, self-care, and healthy achievement.

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Navigating the Maze of Social Cliques: Inclusivity in Middle and High School

Middle and high school can be tumultuous years, marked by self-discovery, academic challenges, and forming lasting friendships. However, they can also be times of exclusion and social cliques, where certain students feel left out. In this blog post, we’ll explore the phenomenon of social cliques, their impact on adolescents, and how both parents and therapists can help students navigate these complex social dynamics while fostering inclusivity.

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Navigating the Return to School: Supporting Students’ Emotional Well-Being

The return to school can be an exciting yet anxiety-inducing time for students. After a period of remote learning, vacations, or even the transition from one grade to another, the adjustment back to the school routine can pose various emotional challenges. As therapists at Integrative Therapy and Coaching, we understand the importance of providing support during these critical times of transition. In this blog, we’ll explore some common emotions students may experience when returning to school and offer guidance on how to assist them in this transition.

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Emotional Intelligence Directly Impacts Learning

In the intricate landscape of youth development, emotions play a central role in shaping experiences, behaviors, and even the process of learning. The journey through adolescence is marked by both profound emotional shifts and substantial cognitive growth. Understanding the connection between emotions and learning is essential for parents, educators, and young individuals themselves. In this blog, we will explore how emotions influence learning for youth, and the potential consequences of emotions acting as obstacles to the learning process.

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Navigating Social Media's Impact on Teens: A Guide for Parents

In today's digitally connected world, social media has become an integral part of teenagers' lives. While it offers numerous benefits, it also comes with its fair share of dangers, particularly concerning the mental health of adolescents. As parents, it's crucial to be aware of these risks and take proactive steps to mitigate their effects. In this article, we'll explore the potential dangers of social media, what parents can do to support their teens, and the role of adolescent counseling services in addressing issues like eating disorders, anxiety, and depression.

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Summer Sponges!

Our children are sponges and they learn from what they see within and beyond their home. Summer is a unique and fun time to expose our children to new ways of thinking, exploring and playing. Typically, when the school year kicks we are nonstop until a holiday, school break or until summer rolls around once more. As a school social worker, I try to think outside the box on new ways and approaches to learning, playing and summer fun for children.

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Understanding My Child’s Diagnosis?

When your child has been given a diagnosis, it can at times feel overwhelming not knowing exactly what it is, how it came to be and what are the best next steps to take to ensure your child's wellbeing and health. So... we are here to help!

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Welcome, Mindfulness!

Mindfulness is the practice of being fully and completely in the moment. Seems impossible, huh? Well, we at Integrative Therapy and Coaching (the best therapists in CT!) are here to shed some light and insight on that! 

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Summer: Our time to stay organized!

When summer rolls around we are often very excited for all the freedom and flexibility but sometimes we realize our schedules are more packed than we thought, and most certainly more than we would like. As summer is here with many plans, some travel and some work, and most shuffling from here to there... It is important to remain organized.

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